Speaking of JoLynne, she is the embodiment of an angelic person. She is so patient, kind and caring. She never acts like I am a hardship at all and just treats me so kindly. I'm not easy to feed these days. Nothing really sounds good to eat. She is so patient looking for things that might sound good. She gently encourages me and praises me even when I don't really do very well. She is always finding something to praise me for. "Eric, looked, you closed your eye a little more" or something like that. I tell her how badly I feel that I can't contribute more right now around the house. She simply tells me "You are getting better, that is your contribution" I wonder if I could possibly be as patient as her. I kind of doubt it.
This morning I woke feeling better. My appetite was slightly back and I didn't feel quite as tired. We ran some errands and then I came home and took an hour nap. Yesterday it would have been a two hour nap. I am learning to just take one day at a time. I just can't plan for tomorrow because I don't know what tomorrow will bring.
My children have also been so sweet. Many of the things the I would normally do around the house they are doing. Cleaning out the rain gutter of leaves, taking care of the animals, winterizing the yard. Elizabeth will often come up and just rub my hair or my feet because she knows that it relaxes me. She is so tender. Adam, who hasn't ever mowed the lawn before got out an mowed up all the leaves yesterday. He was quite proud of himself and I was grateful. Shanelle and Mike have been incredible. Shanelle went down to my chemo session with me on Thursday. It was delightful to visit with her. She is a gem. Mike is always coming around doing something to help. At the moment I am writing this he is doing our dishes. We are so lucky.
Well, I have 18 days until the chemo comes again. I don't know how these days will play out. One day at a time. I will try to be patient and I hope that those around me can continue to be patient with me.